400 Days: What Baby Kfir and Other Hostages Have Missed

On October 7, 2023, as Israel faced a devastating attack from Hamas, baby Kfir Bibas, his 4-year-old brother Ariel, and their parents, Shiri and Yarden, were abducted from their home on the Nir Oz kibbutz. At just 9 months old, Kfir became the youngest hostage in captivity, separated from his family, community, and the familiar comforts of his first home. Now, over 400 days later, we reflect on the milestones Kfir has missed and pray fervently for his safe return.

A Childhood Denied

Kfir's life in captivity has robbed him of the everyday joys and discoveries that make up a child's early years. He has missed first steps, first words, and the support and warmth of his extended family, who continue to hold out hope and rally support for his release. For Kfir, Ariel, and countless others held captive, the passage of time means lost moments that can never be fully recovered.

Around what should have been a joyful milestone—Kfir’s first birthday—hundreds gathered in Tel Aviv's Hostages Square to honor him and his family, wearing orange to match his and his brother’s red hair. But the celebration was shadowed by grief, worry, and the absence of a family ripped apart by violence.

The Bibas family, like so many others affected by the events of October 7, had considered relocating due to the constant threat of violence. Yet, they stayed in their community, hoping to build a life of peace and safety. Instead, they were forcibly taken, their lives thrown into chaos. Shiri and Yarden's courageous efforts to protect their children underscore the heartbreaking reality faced by those in captivity. Tragically, their family in Israel was also shattered, as Shiri's parents were later found murdered, victims of the same violence that took their daughter and grandchildren.

The Plea for Release

Amid attempts to secure their freedom, international figures have been called upon to intervene. Israel's allies, including the United States and humanitarian organizations worldwide, have been asked to use their influence to bring Kfir, Ariel, and others home. Campaigns, vigils, and even diplomatic petitions have been organized, but the return of these innocent lives remains elusive.

The images of Kfir and Ariel have been projected on the walls of Israeli embassies across the world, shining a light on their story and calling on us all to advocate for their safe return. 

As people of faith, we hold to the promise that "the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). As Christian Women For Israel, we feel the deep sorrow of this injustice and are called to lift up our voices in prayer. May God’s presence comfort the Bibas family and all the hostages held captive, and may His hand guide the efforts to bring them back home.

In solidarity, we wear a yellow ribbon lapel pin as a symbol of our ongoing prayers and advocacy for the safe return of Kfir, Ariel, and all those held captive. Will you wear the pin for Kfir and his family? Together, let us stand in faith, praying for their freedom and for peace in the land we cherish.